Answer:
It depends on how you see your own self and how you show it to others.
My self-mage very closely reflects my real self. Sometimes when I’m down, I still smile. I don’t see the need to subject other people to my occasional depression and I feel better when I smile. I’m an inquisitive person, but I reign that in because some people prefer not to be asked questions. I’m a reserved person by nature, but I smile a lot.