We can all take steps to stop domestic violence. If you or a loved one are trying to leave an abusive relationship, it's important to remember that it's the abuser who needs to change. However, your abuser may be unable or unwilling change and you should never have endure abuse from anyone. Your number one priority should be safety for you and your loved ones.
I’M THINKING OF LEAVING AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP.WHERE DO I START?
-First, plan for your safety. Contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or your local domestic violence outreach organization to learn more about how to create a safety plan or to discuss how to approach a friend about your concerns for his or her relationship. In addition, you or your loved one may want to attend a domestic violence support group.
I’M AFRAID TO CALL THE POLICE, BUT CAN I?
-Remember you can always call 911 if anyone is hurting you or threatening to hurt you. There are potential consequences for your abuser such as arrest, conviction for domestic violence, and deportation. However, it’s important to keep in mind that it was the abuser who took the action that resulted in you or your loved one needing to call the police for protection. If you do call the police and they respond in an inappropriate manner, such as ignoring your call for help, consider consulting with your local domestic violence agency.
